THanks for all the help. I actually did this stuff before you replied but i did what ya said.
The copper T and the 3/4" female adapter i have is soldered and working great. the 3/4" pvc elbow i screwed into the copper is leaking a TAD, i just see small drops on the connection, but it's not like FLOWING. i got all the other assembly done too, hopefully i did it good enough

it looks sort of crappy but that's what i get for doing it myself.
and holy CRUD, it took my father and I 8 hrs to get the friggin pc under the driveway.
mistake #1, used 3/4" sch 200 pvc instead of 1" or 3/4" schedule 40.
mistake #2, wanted to go under the driveway to begin with.
mistake #3, live in florida

can we say SMUD

(sandy mud for those floridaically challenged)
man. then the trenching took the whole second day!.
mistake #1, square shovel
mistake #2, didn't rent a trencher
mistake #3, didn't get some sucker to trench for me
i DID find out that a lawn edger does a GREAT job cutting the grass 1-2 inches though

we did that on either side of the pvc and then just shoveled up ONE side of the trench and pulled the grass over, was SOOOO much easier then shoveling.
but man, 2 days, and all i got was the main assembly done and the pipe trenched and laid out, it's not even glued yet
BAH